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Why do sober guys try to seduce drunk girls?

This is a big reason I no longer get drunk at parties, because drunk girls ARE an easy rape/sex target. These guys don’t have the social skills to persuade sober chicks to lay them, so they target drunk girls as a better opportunity.

 From the news I've read and discussions I have been a part of there’s quite a lot of men hanging out at any party any part of the world these days checking to see when some chick falls asleep or collapses comatose from drugs or alcohol and they have this idea that drunk girls have no memory of what is happening to them.

These men are lazy and socially inept.
They also want power over women.
"I grew up in a little town in Oxfordshire. I was part of a rebellious crowd. We did drugs and weren't very serious about school.
I had lots of relationships, but I wouldn’t describe any of them as romantic. I was looking for one thing: sex. That’s what my life was about when I was that age, chasing girls.
I became very preoccupied with pornography and sex. I was very promiscuous. I’m not as promiscuous now as when I was younger - after all the courses I’ve done I’m a bit wiser about it. But when I was younger, oh, anybody. Whoever I could latch on to.
I was already offending back then. I did it because it was exciting. It was a buzz. It gave me a certain feeling of power over that person. I wouldn’t have said it then, but it’s obvious to me looking back that I was lost and out of control."
Quoted from this article:Why I'm a sex offender
Some men will come up to a woman and try to connect with her and if she rebuffs him, he thinks she is playing hard to get. She won’t accept him sober but she will drunk.
Some guys have learned that this works well for them so if they stay sober they end up masturbating into comatose girls without consent. They are satisfied by that, maybe they like screwing women who cannot resist. There are some guys who attend Burning Man and other outdoor concert events who target girls who pass out, our country just jailed a guy for this same crime. Raping girls who were passed out.
Dance party rapist
Here's another recent example that hit the headlines. Stanford Rapist

My take on this: Parents: teach your sons and daughters what sexual consent really IS. 
Girls, Women, Ladies:- sadly you are not safe to get drunk at parties, nor at festivals or concerts, nor at Burning Man type gatherings. Please take care of each other.
Pop fan raped
Music festival rape problem
Someone said to me recently: Nothing good happens after midnight. Food for thought.

These men are predators and likely there is at least one of them at a party you are attending.
Be aware that they are there. I know it's not comfortable and will spoil your enjoyment of the show, but with how some men are behaving, safety for women in any environment is an illusion.
Please do not hesitate to report being molested or raped by these men.
DNA testing means there is very little chance of him being able to rape you and leave no trace.

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